John Withers, Jr. – Balekian Hayes, PLLC Partner
John is a board-certified attorney in both Family Law and Criminal Law and serves as a partner at Balekian Hayes, PLLC in Dallas, Texas. He specializes in high-conflict and high-profile divorce and child custody matters, as well as criminal defense cases. Bringing extensive courtroom experience and strategic insight to each matter. Known for his thoughtful and results-driven approach, John helps clients navigate some of the most complex and sensitive legal challenges while protecting their interests and peace of mind.
Education
John graduated from Texas A&M University in December 1983 with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Civil Engineering. Following graduation, he married the former Mojgan Zarrabi. In January 1984, the two traveled to Fort Sill, Oklahoma, where John attended the Field Artillery Officer Basic Course (FAOBC). Following the completion of the FAOBC, they returned to Dallas where John attended the SMU School of Law. He graduated from law school in May 1987.
Experience
In September 1987, John was hired as an Assistant District Attorney by Dallas County District Attorney John Vance. John worked his way through the District Attorney’s Office and became a Chief Felony prosecutor and later Chief of the Commercial Auto Theft Task Force. While at the District Attorney’s Office, he prosecuted thousands of criminals, personally participating in 185 jury trials, including two capital murder cases.
After John left the District Attorney’s Office, he accepted a position with the law firm of Flecher & Springer, L.L.P. (now Fletcher, Farley, Shipman & Salinas, L.L.P.), which concentrates on insurance defense litigation. On April 1, 1996, John joined his father and started the law firm of Withers & Withers, P.C. focusing primarily in the area of Family Law. In addition to the private practice of law, John served as an Associate Judge for the Town of Highland Park and a JAG officer for the Texas Army National Guard and the U.S. Army Reserve (USAR). He retired from USAR in 2008 at the rank of Lieutenant Colonel. John is a graduate of the U.S. Army Command and General Staff Officers’ Course and the 44th Military Judge Course.
Divorce Attorney
As a partner at the firm, John helps clients navigate some of the most challenging moments in their lives: divorce and family law matters. He understands that each case is unique, and she develops targeted strategies to meet her clients’ individual goals while managing the legal complexities of the process. Experienced in both contested and uncontested divorces, John provides clear guidance, practical solutions, and support to help clients make informed decisions during what can be an emotional and stressful time. His approach is client-focused, ensuring that every person he represents feels informed, empowered, and supported throughout their case.
Child Custody Attorney
John recognizes the high stakes involved in child custody and family law matters. He works to protect children’s well-being while advocating for her clients’ rights and concerns. John assists with establishing visitation schedules, resolving disputes, modifying custody agreements, and addressing visitation violations. He also has extensive experience handling child support matters, helping clients understand their rights, enforce agreements, and modify orders when circumstances change. As a partner at the firm, his goal is to provide families with both sound legal guidance and the personal support they need to move forward successfully.
Practice Areas
- Criminal Law
- Family Law
- Juvenile Law
Certified Legal Specialties
- Criminal Law, Texas Board of Legal Specialization
- Family Law, Texas Board of Legal Specialization
Professional Associations
- Texas Academy of Family Law Specialists
- Texas Bar Foundation
Current Employment Position
- Partner
Awards
- Texas Super Lawyers List – 2025
Get in Touch
John and the rest of the team at Balekian Hayes, PLLC, can address all of your family law needs. We offer forward-thinking legal solutions and practical support as you prepare for the next stages of your life.
In addition to divorce and child custody, we help clients with asset division, high-asset divorce cases, same-sex family legal issues, spousal support, grandparents’ rights, and matters involving child protective services. If you have a family law problem, contact us.